I was glad to be interviewed by the team at HubBub for this article which highlights the importance of events in honour of International Pregnancy and Infant Loss awareness Day 15/10.
In my role as a Peer Supporter for Sands I hear parents struggle to find the words to express their emotions. It can be so difficult, confronting, exhausting and overwhelming when your baby dies, at Sands all Volunteer Parent Peer Supporters are bereaved parents themselves, so we have been there too.
Here’s the link:
Light a Candle for Little Lives
Light a candle on October 15 for little lives lost
By The Bub Hub Crew|Thursday, October 13th, 2016
Light a candle for Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness
Parents, grandparents, relatives and friends will create a wave of light across the world on October 15, when they light a candle for International Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day, in memory of the brief yet meaningful lives of babies lost due to miscarriage, stillbirth and infant death.
Andre Carvalho, CEO of Sands Australia, a not-for-profit organisation that offers support and guidance for bereaved parents who have experience the loss of a baby, says International Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day is a day where parents can come together to support one another.
“This day is a very important one for the many Australian families who have experienced the grief caused by the death of a baby,” he says.
“It’s a day for reflection and remembrance, and it’s also a time to help raise awareness among the greater community.”
Each year, Sands organises a number of memorial events across Queensland, Victoria, South Australia, Western Australia and Tasmania, led by Volunteer Parent Supporters based in each State.
“This year, to coincide with International Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day, we will be hosting walks in in various locations in Queensland, Victoria and South Australia, as well as candle lighting ceremonies and memorial services in both Western and South Australia,” he says.
“We urge families, friends and members of the community to get involved. Join us for a walk or light a candle to show your support.”
For mum and Sands Volunteer Parent Supporter, Kyla Woods whose daughter Claudia who was born still in 2014 at 32 weeks pregnant, October 15, marks a significant day, and one she urges members of the community to stand behind.
“When your baby dies you can feel like you are trapped in your grief and loss, and that is very isolating for a grieving parent,” she says
“To have this day helps acknowledge and honor those babies that are loved, wanted and cherished but died before their time. Having events to mark this day helps build a supportive community and helps bring the discussion of miscarriage, stillbirth and infant loss out to the broader public.”
“For those people who have experienced or been touched by a loss like ours, we urge you get involved with your local event or light a candle at home. It’s a wonderful way for the community to come together and show their support for those who need it.”